“The more you complain, the less you will obtain. We must not have the kind of attitude that makes one see the bad in every situation. What we see is what we get.” Rev’d Sam Adeyemi

Complaining creates a negative magnetic field around you. This negative magnetic field attracts negative people and circumstances toward you. I was at a bus stop one day and the crowd was too much. The rush for the available vehicle was too much and all people could do was to put the blame on the government. I just couldn’t understand what government has to do with the scarcity of vehicle.

This [tag]attitude[/tag] is not peculiar to people at the bus stop alone. You see it everywhere you go. Instead of focusing on solving the problems at hand, a lot of people would rather look for someone to put the blame on. As long as you complain and look for opportunities to blame someone else for your current challenges, you would keep attracting negative people to yourselves. And this set of people will only make the matter worse.

If you are really ready to change your situation, stop complaining. A life of complaining is the ultimate guarantee for failure. Don’t complain. Things are not always as bad as they seem.

“When you complain, you explain your pain for no gain“

Surround yourself only with people that see opportunities in every situation. Stay away from people who only complain and would not encourage you. Friendship is not by force, it is by choice.Also, you need to watch what you listen to. Screen the programs that you watch on TV. Not every good program is good for you. Your responsibility is to choose what is good for you. Anything that enters your mind controls your life. Stay away from listening to tapes that will strengthen your doubt. Listen to tapes that will lift you up. Do everything to guide your heart and to equip yourself. 2007 is around the corner. Choose today to make the year a complaint-free year…